Non-duality vs. detachment

The difference between not caring and not minding

I was told: ‘you cannot not give a fuck about anything?!’ 

This is a huge misunderstanding of what I am pointing towards. 

Not giving a fuck would mean not caring. Not caring means not supporting, not loving - in other words, detaching from an issue and pretending it is not happening.

Not minding, on the other hand, is accepting what is, and acting (or not acting) from a place of Love. Our journey here is to become more and more involved in the world, yet also less and less attached to it. Paradoxically, the less attached to it you are, the more you are of service to the whole. 

In order to not mind, you have to know your Self, and everything else, as Love. It is the only way.